comp het shit

• liking only fictional men
• a relationship with a woman sounds far more exciting
• you could be with a man, but it’s never been something you’ve been particularly excited about
• you like a boy until he likes you back
• usually hetero scenes in movies either bore or disgust you
• if you id as bi/pan you have to make sure people know you like girls more
• you feel gross when boys show interest in you
• you feel like being with boys is a chore
• your attraction to men just doesn’t feel as genuine
• saying you’re bi/pan makes you uncomfortable but you don’t feel gay enough to say gay
• you show a lot of interest in wlw media but feel like you shouldn’t
• when you imagine the man you would end up with, there’s nothing unique about him. just a general man
• girls make your heart flutter, boys make you go “eh okay i guess”

this is only from my personal experience, but i know a lot of other lesbians experienced things like this too. feel free to add anything else!