tired of being constantly trapped between the ‘mean angry ugly d*ke’ and the ‘smol sensitive nb bean’ stereotypes
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tired of being constantly trapped between the ‘mean angry ugly d*ke’ and the ‘smol sensitive nb bean’ stereotypes
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like not to be a treasonous bitch but the fact that police are forcibly removing homeless people from the streets of windsor - including “confiscating” their sleeping bags, and impounding a bus that’s been repurposed as a sleeping place for homeless people - so that dumb royalists can camp out to watch their fav rich imperialist get married without the fucking view being spoiled is so UNDENIABLY immoral like. how does anyone think that’s ok? last i checked 1 in 200 people is homeless in the UK, and poverty in this country is so overwhelming that they tried to change the definition of the word to reduce the amount of people technically in poverty, but the government will spend millions of pounds on this fucking bullshit wedding and the british public is LAPPING IT UP!
people are throwing parties and sticking up photos of ginger’s face on their walls like these people aren’t responsible at all for the current state of our country, aren’t draining our resources like fucking leeches! children are so malnourished that they’re being treated for rickets! more people than ever before are relying on food banks to live! the government is killing people by cutting their benefits or forcing people to work who physically can’t, and people are celebrating??
this isn’t a day of celebration. this is a day of fucking mourning for the thousands of english people the government has decided don’t have the right to live; the people whose lives are apparently worth less than a fucking wedding. if you’re celebrating this wedding today, fuck off and get some morals, you absolute fucking imbecile
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it’s incredible how everyone on this site talks about their mental illnesses and how childhood in particular is usually the root of it, how literally almost every person going to therapy has childhood traumas caused by adults, but you’re so happy to talk about hating kids, to say cruel and dehumanizing things about them (calling them “demons”, comparing them to animals and inanimate objects you dislike, viewing them as an inconvenience and a thing to be trained and disciplined, etc), to not show them basic human decency or compassion while acting like this kind of mindset is completely okay and harmless
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anyway y’all have no problem when gay men doing drag use she/her but as soon as lesbians use he/him it’s suddenly a problem and a huge contradiction
realise that gender is part and parcel of heterosexuality and so lesbians necessarily navigate gender entirely differently than straight women
i think the “lesbians can’t use he/him” is absolutely implicit in wanting to keep us in a womanhood defined and ruled by heterosexuality. once we start to display us doing gender for ourselves, challenging and living with toxic heterosexual femininity: he/him lesbians, butches, etc. that’s when it gets out of hand for y’all
lesbians rejecting a womanhood that ties them to men because of gender, because of heterosexuality is not a bad thing, it’s not a contradiction, it makes perfect sense.
the policing of he/him lesbians is ironically completely bound up in misogyny: an anxiety to let lesbians do what they want and not consider men/heterosexuality and do gender on their own in their own way
same goes for the weirdness a lot of people have about “lesbians can’t be nb”
like lol yes they can
the move to always try and tie lesbians back on to a strict defined sense of womanhood makes lesbians parsable as Women in a purely heterosexual conception
if lesbians can’t be easily understood as women, then the male gaze can’t fetishise us, objectify us, make us two girls kissing for the pleasure of men. it’s a way of escape & of dealing with gendered trauma & of enacting subjectivity
lesbians know what they’re doing, leave us alone
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@ cis people, can y’all stop asking what a person’s dead name is when you find out they’re trans? it’s rude, invasive, and unnessesary. u don’t need to know what their old name was so stop asking
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there it is
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good homeopathy: i use lavender because it smells nice and helps me sleep
bad homeopathy: i use lavender and it smells so nice that i stop getting vaccinated
good homeopathy: increasing fruit and green leafy vegetables in my child’s diet might help them beat leukemia
bad homeopathy: chemotherapy drugs are full of toxic chemicals so I’m gonna cleanse my child with this tea for 2 weeks
Yall sound like elitist assholes who spend more time judging people they dont know than they do researching substances
I am terminally ill and venting about salespeople that try to scam me and my friends at medical conventions but go off
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“just let people do what they WAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaant”
i promise that no matter how much i talk about how fucking awful and harmful and destructive the things you want to write and draw are, i cannot actually stop you from making the world’s biggest ass of yourself.
people reacting to what you have made is a natural consequence and inescapable. you brought that shit on your self. stop trying to blame the people who are doing everything they can to avoid your stupid shit for your own pathetic failures
this literally would not be happening to you people if you could just fucking examine What You Want and realize that it’s fucking bad.
you want the freedom to be homophobic, transphobic, racist pedophiles whenever you fucking feel like it with no consequences. you want to claim that you’re of vital significance to the community you’re poisoning because people are finally realizing that they don’t HAVE to put up with your shit.
If slavery AUs and child porn are the hill you want to die on then go ahead and fucking die.
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question: how ‘nice’ are you really if you see a girl being mistreated by her boyfriend and make her out to be the villain because she didn’t choose you instead
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As an nb person, I’m pretty tired of the usual standard of nonbinary “”“"aesthetic”“”“ being skinny, white, androgynous. But I’m also really sick of people acting like we’re a cross between male and female, and all of their stereotypes of us being like a masculine haircut, with glitter eyeshadow and lipstick, but a more masculine outfit and heels. We’re not people that can be broken down into fractions of masculinity and feminity.
Also this is 1000% ok to rb, esp for non nb people
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